What to do if the opinions of the two families differ when choosing a wedding venue

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Choosing a wedding ceremony venue is fun but confusing, such as wanting to have a ceremony in a sparkling chapel or wanting to have a wedding in a good location overseas.

However, there are cases where the bride and groom can decide on their own, and the opinions of both families may be different and it may take time to choose a ceremony.

It's a good idea to have a wedding, but some people may feel depressed if the opinions of the two families show a discrepancy and can't be decided easily.

In this article, we will introduce how to prepare for a wedding venue and what to do if the opinions of the two families differ.

Attitudes when choosing a wedding venue

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What to do if the opinions of both families disagree when choosing a wedding venue. Regardless of the disagreement between the bride and groom, it is no more than a hassle to say that both families are the same.

However, this seems surprisingly common.

The location of the wedding, timing, scale, and associated costs.

Many people think, "I would like to have a wedding as decided by the bride and groom!"

However, although family relations are getting thinner, marriage will come later later.

It is an image of rowing with a single board in the very rough ocean.

Each time you clear a problem, equipment is added to the board, and it becomes a splendid luxury liner and you can enjoy cruising.

A single board isn't enough, but in other words it's also light.

Since it may be a simple solution,We recommend that you think positivelyTo do.

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What to do if the opinions of both families differ when choosing a wedding venue

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What should we do if both families have disagreed and want to convince them to choose a ceremony hall?

Let's check what to do if the opinions of both families differ when choosing a wedding venue.

The bride and groom agree

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First, discuss exactly what the bride and groom want to do.To be monolithicis. If the intentions of the bride and groom are not the same, of course, it will be difficult to summarize the story.

It doesn't mean to be determined, but it's about talking about what you can never give up, what you can make some concessions, and what you can do for both families.

Keep that in your heart and listen to each phrase first.

Ask deeply why the wedding hall is good or disgusting.

Without saying “but” or “even”‘I ’m sure’ and ‘I ’m thinking like that’At the same time, it will be an opportunity to find places that are likely to come together, such as distance, atmosphere problems, and charges.

By talking logically about the reason you want and collecting information to find out if it meets your requirements, each will be convinced and the discussion will proceed smoothly.

When discussing with the bride and groom,Discuss calmly without being emotionalIt is important.

Explore the essence of the problem

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If the discrepancy has already surfaced and the relationship between the two families has become subtle, this is a good place to rest.

There is no parent who can't afford to get their child married just because of the wedding hall.

It is a result of the negative feelings of being seen, but not being seen there, and that it is the treatment that my child will receive from the other party in the future life I will.

For that reason, it may be that they are talking about choosing a ceremonial hall, so that they should be treated as much as possible..

When you realize that you are from the heart of your heart, you can be grateful for the frustrating case of what you have to worry about.

If you ask the reason well, the relative number of relatives is overwhelmingly less than the relatives of the other side and it is concerned, etc. There may be.

Anyway, it's easy to get rid of things that are easy for individuals and individuals.

If you quit from the stage of paying, you can also take time.

We hear in detail from parents of both families, and we discuss again with bride and groom based on it.

Try to apply what you had discussed earlier.

What we need to organize here

・ Conditions for choosing a wedding hall desired by both families (place, scale, method, etc.)

・ Areas where we can compromise

These two points. If there's a way to get it right, it's better than that.It is absolutely necessary to discuss with the parents each part that is different from the intentions of the bride and groom.

The important thing here isAnd do n’t give the impression that you ’re in line with the intentions of one or the other.. If you seem to prioritize the other party's intentions, your impression may worsen. By chance, when the opinions of the two families disagree, it is quite possible that the opinion of one of the parents and the bride and groom are the same, but let them know that it is the intention of the bride and groom. Let's go.

When raising money for a wedding ceremony, it is natural to have opinions from both families.It is a source of trouble that gives you the impression that you only have to pay for the money and then decide for yourself.

This is a common case. Even if there is no malice, there is no way to feel that it is neglected by just a little report at the stage where you have chosen a ceremony hall by yourself and have had various meetings.

Therefore, it may be better to go to consultations about weddings more often than you think.

Collect materials such as brochures from several companies and if possibleIt is safe to get together in both houses and decide about 3 companies from among them and finally select.

What should be the criteria for choosing a wedding hall

It is also recommended to meet and discuss with both families

Exchange of opinionsMeeting and discussing is the easiest way to solve it.

If both houses are far away,Show consideration such as setting up a meeting place in the middleIt is important.

I think that the conditions will be almost the same, since I chose my opinion first, so I would like to participate in the pre-wedding etc. that the wedding hall is doing.

I feel relieved if I think my parents are not outside the mosquito netSo I often start responding to hawking.

Anyway, the important thing isEven if the bride and groom decide, they don't seem to decide it.

Even if you have decided in advance, it is important to ask your parents first.

There was no need to create an unnecessary wave.

The important thing is that the bride and groom are monolithic and have the same idea.

It's important to encourage the bride and groom to endure and not be complaining and to build a strong relationship.

People do not go forward to not discussing.

This time, we will talk about the wedding hall, but it will surely affect both the bride and groom as well as the bride and groom by showing that they will continue to discuss each other in the future.

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