Is it okay to run out? Let's celebrate the longevity celebration together!

Living a long life is great in any era. Certainly, compared to the past, the difficulty of living longer has changed, but it is still very rewarding and happy to live long on 1 days.

Most of the longevity celebrations will be celebrated together, but there are people who try to make them happy by themselves and tend to cause various troubles.

We will explain why it is easy to get into trouble if you run away and why everyone should celebrate.

 

Celebration by rushing calls such a trouble!

The word ridicule is not good,The point is that you don't talk to anyone, celebrating with 1 people, making a plan is not pleasant for the people around you, but you only feel angry..

The content of the trouble changes depending on the attributes such as siblings and relatives.

Trouble between brothers and sisters

When celebrating the longevity of your parents or grandparentsA case where you don't say anything to your brother, just prepare yourself and give it to others.

If you look at other brothers, you will feel like an infiltrator and feel frustrated why you didn't consult.

On the other hand, if the brothers and sisters are willing to give out 1 gifts by sharing money, running out of 1 people will break the plan.

These troublesIt is likely to occur because the communication between the brothers and sisters is not mature and there is no concept of making it all together from the beginning, or there is no feeling to cooperate and give.

There are cases where people give up because of the difference in face value, though it has nothing to do with running out. I want to avoid having brothers and sisters fight for celebration.

Trouble between relatives

In rural areas, if 1 people celebrate the 60th birthday, everyone tends to celebrate.

Everyone will be excited by eating rice or giving presents, but the trouble that occurs at this time isFight for leadership among relatives.

Compliment on what to give, I'm okay, no, it won't break with each other, it won't listen to people around me, and sometimes I get in trouble.

There are multiple factors, and there are two types of people: one who wants to make arrangements in good faith and one who wants to do the work freely.

Of course, there are people who want to take the lead because they want to think well, but if anythingMore people are doing in good faith.

It is complicated as a longevity celebration side because it can not be pulled easily because it is done in good faith and it is no longer a celebration.

Trouble at the bride

When handing out a gift for longevity celebration to my husband's father, mother-in-law, father-in-law,Issues related to values ​​such as 60th birthday celebrations due to age differencesMay surface.

Usually it is handed over with husband, and it is just right to give 1 presents with children and joint names.

But,The situation where only the husband runs away, or only the bride gives something, the end result is that the bride is bad, and it tends to make you feel ridiculous.

For example, if you don't like the present you gave, but you don't like it, you can say it directly to the 2 people, but you don't have enough money to celebrate, or the present suits your hobby. I don't tell my wife that it wasn't so bad, I tell my husband, my son, as a gusset, and when my husband asks her to ask for a standing, the relationship is broken.

A situation where one of them becomes a bad guy doesn't make a good relationship.

Trouble at work

If you have a 60th birthday celebration at work,Who will take the leadTo wear down your nerves.

If you want to do it only for those who want to celebrate, you will naturally get a cold glance towards those who don't celebrate,If you give away a gift without permission, you will be in a state of competition to give yourself something better..

Now, you do n’t feel like celebrating that person ’s longevity, but you ’re full of people who want to stand out and get ahead.

Some people have declared that they will not accept the present of the hand, and dare to lighten the burden, but by passing only the present without reading the intent, the people around us flew away You will feel that.

If you ’re a family, you ’ll be able to do it with a little help,In the case of a company, career advancement and personnel affairs are also involved, and there are things that can not be helped without help..

Although acting alone is not a good evaluation, it is the same in this case.

 

If everyone celebrates, trouble is unlikely to occur!

Japanese people hate stand play, butThat's how good Japanese people areIs at the root.

The same goes for the longevity celebration, so if you celebrate together and make a plan together, trouble will be less likely to occur.

I will explain how to deal with the previous siblings, relatives, bridesmaids, and workplaces.

Gather together with brothers and sisters, make plans, and set policies

For longevity celebrations, etc., the schedule is basically long since. If you have a 60th birthday, you can plan a longevity party near your 60 birthday and move towards it.

If possible, all brothers and sisters will gather together about six months before the sixtieth birthday and discuss what to do with the sixtieth birthday celebration.

If you share the money together to give a hot spring trip or a cruise trip, you will decide whether it will be divided evenly or if there are more people who can afford it.

So far, unless you do it maliciously and deliberately, you won't be in a situation where you can run away.

Even if you give individual gifts,1 people prepare red chanchanko, 1 people prepare alcohol with name.That is also 1 one hand.

The reason why the runaway happens is because there are people who are not communicating and are not listening to the story.

In order not to do so,It ’s best to talk a few times and be able to move towards a unified goal..

Adjust relatives of relatives between relatives

It ’s not good for relatives to fight for leadership.It ’s just right to have a longevity celebration in cooperation with each other.

The reason for the fight for leadership is that, after all, it is a face value problem, and there is a situation where you can spend money on who is the most.

What you can do to prevent it from happeningMake a celebration plan with a long-term eye.

In particular,That person gave us a lot this time, so the next time we decided to give a lot, we decided in orderAnd if you approve it, you won't give up.

If the house over there is something worth 10 million yen, and if we were worth 8 million yen, the next time is enough. This

If you talk about this and set up such a policy, it will be smooth at another celebration.

Nuclear families and urbanization are progressing, and there is limited fighting for leadership among relatives, but next time, if you think in your mind that you will give more, you do not have to make useless battles The

Listen to my father-in-law's request, don't start surprise

After all, this kind of conflictMostly lack of communicationAnd the attitude of not listening and not listening will cause trouble.

And it ’s just those who create a state of solitude and blame others when they ’re supposed to be bad.

In this case,It was best not to have heard the request of my stepfather-in-lawAnd if you try to make a surprise in that, it may not respond as you expected.

If you listen to what you want and prepare for it, you won't be confused, cheap, don't spend money, or don't suit your hobbies.

Even if you set a surprise, you won't be disappointed.

Some people think that having a longevity celebration means that they are old, and some people hate the longevity celebration itself.If you listen carefully and do what you want, your partner will see you as important and you wo n’t have to lower your rating..

Better to give gifts by department

If you celebrate the sixtieth birthday for those who have celebrated the sixtieth birthday, it will be difficult to bring home with the extra baggage.

As a way to prevent troubles, there are things that do not give presents at all, and do not give them away, but that is not good.

If not the best,If you give a gift by department and write in the same way as the accounting department, you will not have to give up..

Since everyone only needs to put out little by little, the burden on the wallet will be reduced, and it will be easy to make a lot of money, so you can choose what you like and your hobbies.

The reason why the department unit is better is that if someone else wants to give it, it will be given by the individual.

Ideally, it is best to create a gathering to celebrate, collect money, and present what you want, but most people are busy with work, and the management side is difficult.

As much as possibleGiving the number of people together reduces the trouble..

Red Chanchanko should decide who will give in advance

Red Chanchanko is indispensable for the 60th birthday celebration. For longevity celebration, you can purchase Chanchanko of the color that is perfect for that celebration.

However, there are still people who refuse to do Chanchanko because they are still active. Who should hand the red chanIdeal is a child, next is a woman.

Give your child a red chan and wear it! If you say, “I do n’t like it in my heart, but I ca n’t say that in front of my grandchild.

Grandpa looks good! It ’s already Gokigen.

If the boss has reached the 60th birthday at work, the young woman brings a red chanko and asks him to wear it, and the surroundings will be excited and the story will continue in a good atmosphere..

When this is a man, it doesn't feel good for some reason, and it tends to feel as if seen from above.

If you are celebrating with your family, have your child play a big role, if you are celebrating at work, have a young woman hand it over,If you wear a red chan-chan, you will say that she looks as good as you can.This will solve it.

 

Summary

This is because even if there is a good plan rather than a bad run, the plan will be destroyed by the stand-up of 1 people, and it will be ugly.

The 60th birthday, Kouki, Kishou, etc. can only be experienced 1 times for that person. The translation is different from the birthday that comes every year.

That is whyCarefully plan and congratulateThere is a need.

No one wants to experience such a situation, even if the celebration is a mess, and everything is messed up.

AnywaysCommunicate with the surroundings, listen carefully to the parties and know their needs, do as little surprise as possible, do not plan and act ad-libIf you keep this, it is unlikely that you will be pointed out.

It is very important that 1 people try to enliven celebrations with many people.

What is important is the feelings of the other party! Gifts for longevity celebration