About letters to parents at the wedding
It is currently difficult to meet important people other than family members and get married after going out with each other.
In the meantime, it seems happy to be able to get along with a partner who wants to live together and to get married safely.
At weddings, many brides read letters to their parents with such happiness and gratitude for raising them.
In this article, I will introduce the letters to parents at the wedding, touching on the current marriage situation.
About modern marriage
There are billions of people all over the world, but only one person can marry, and you cannot marry more than one person at the same time.
There are many people in the world who are married, including their parents, so there are so many people who feel that marriage is very common and grows up.
And when you are a child, you tend to think that if you are an adult you can naturally marry, but if you grow up, you will never know.
In modern Japanese society, as you can see from the fact that the word “marriage hunting” is widely permeated,There are countless men and women who can't even marrydoing.
In Japanese society before a long time ago, there were people who took care of marriage in their relatives and neighborhoods, but in the present age when such people disappeared, finding a marriage partner became a difficult task .
Marriage is a miracle
How lucky you are to meet someone you love in the world and to settle your life together.
I have to thank the miracle that I met with the only one who is destined to marry.
The two who decided to marry while appreciating such a miracle encounter must now do various things, such as submitting a marriage registration, preparing a new house, and deciding on a honeymoon destination.
Among themWedding preparationIs the most difficult one.
The wedding showcases that they were married to family, relatives, friends, and other important people close to them,An important place to swear in front of those important people to cooperate and live together in the future.
And since it is once in a lifetime for two people who get married, we are particular about various things.
First of all, it is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for the bride to wear her long-cherished bridal gown such as a wedding dress.
The choice of costume cannot be compromised.
Furthermore, since the invited guests are all important people for the bride and groom, we can not neglect hospitality.
It's hard to think about the selection of dishes and gifts, and the direction that invites guests won't get bored during the ceremony.
Thank you letter to parents
However, speaking of what you can't miss in any wedding,Letter to parents read by brideit might be.
The scene where a bride and his wife read a letter that expresses their gratitude to their parents so far touches not only the bride and her parents, but also the invited guests.
While adults will not be able to express their gratitude to their parents, they are no longer able to talk about it, but weddings are the best place to express their gratitude to their parents who have been raised and watched.
Therefore, in recent years, with various productions, it can be said that only reading letters to parents is performed in any ceremony.
Reading a letter to parents is exactly the climax of a wedding. When the nervous wedding comes to an end, it's the last big program.
When I wrote a letter to my parents, I met my beloved person who wanted to get married because my parents raised me lovingly, and now I am surrounded by this happiness. You may realize that it is thanks to your parents.
そ し て,I am also impressed by the greatness of my parents who raised me in a loving family.must.
Although it is overwhelmingly large for brides to read letters to their parents, it would be good for the groom to read letters to their parents as well as the brides.
It is the same for the groom to marry and build a new independent home.
Things that I can't say because I'm embarrassed on a daily basis can be said at weddingIsn't it?
In any case, there is no other place in the wedding where you can express your gratitude to your parents.
Don't be shy, spell your honest feelings in a letter.
I think that will bring loneliness to the parents who have brought it up, but it will surely be the day when you can experience the happiness and excitement of your life.
It is also the moment when guests who come to the wedding can become brides and don't know the episodes, and the desire to support the bride and groom further increases.
How to write letters to parents to read at the wedding
A letter to the bride's parents, which has become a standard for wedding performances.
Here, we will introduce how to write and flow basic letters.
Introduction
It is common for the introduction of letters to parents to convey words of gratitude for the things they have brought up so far and the feeling of gratitude that they were able to greet the wedding day safely.
Start with an image that speaks to your parents, and briefly convey your gratitude to the next development.
The guest came to the wedding hereAppreciate and refuse to read letters to parentsIt is recommended because it improves politeness.
Unfolded
In the main development of the letter to the parents, I will write an unforgettable episode with my parents.
Let's exchange episodes that can only be written by the bride, such as thoughts about parents who gently watched their growth in childhood, episodes that rebelled in adolescence, and memories that were supported by parents since they became adults.
Looking back on my life,Choose an episode that suits the feeling you want to convey at the wedding, such as wanting to thank you again or apologize for that timeIt becomes easier to write.
Knot
Finally, we will send a message to the groom's parents and guests as well as their parents.
At this time, incorporating enthusiasm and aspirations for the future of the couple's life will greatly increase the desire of the listening side to watch and support.
Let your parents know what they haven't been able to say face to face.
Tips for writing letters to parents
Up to this point, we have introduced the flow of letters. Later, I will introduce detailed tips such as how much volume to write.
-About 600 to 800 characters
If you start talking about memories with your parents, there will be no sharpness. There will be more thankfulness. However, the longer the letter, the longer it takes to read.
It is said that the ideal number of characters is ideally around 600 to 800 characters, with a range that fits on two sheets of manuscript paper.
If you read this, the speech will be about 2-3 minutes. It may seem surprisingly few, but speaking it turns out to be just the right length.
-Write carefully on stationery
After reading the letter, put it in an envelope and give it to your parents along with gifts such as souvenirs. Therefore, prepare and write stationery and envelopes that will not be ashamed if you leave them forever.
